Weddings don't always have to be BIG and LOUD. They can be soft and sweet as well. It's all about the love between the couple, and if its just family celebrating, then that's just as grand!
The wedding day is about you. So make it about you. Pick your favorites, put them together, and have the best day ever!
We loved getting to be a part of this Literary style shoot because it gives us a glimpse into just how sweet these small weddings can be!
If you read our previous blog post, then you know just how important a theme can be. This style shoot was all about books, love stories and romance, which definitely shinned through in all the small details.
Sometimes simple can make a statement as well. I mean...LOOK at this sweet waterfall of cafe lights!
Whether your wedding is a BIG get together or small gathering, make sure to find those little moments that you and your significant other can share together as newlyweds.
These are the essentials when it comes to adding anything on top of, near, or around your reception tables for the most outstanding tables yet!
Check out these great examples by brides who chose to give their tables the volume, color AND feel that all tables deserve!
VOLUME:
The black candleabra gives this table height and the fluffy white feathers give the table even more shape and direction.
Color:
The choice of gold in the table runner and charger gives a contrast look against the dark linen, napkins, and table decor.
Feel:
The small lit candles placed sparatically on the table runner gives shine to the sequins and warmth to the atmosphere.
VOLUME:
The glass milk jars filled with stiffer greens, brings style to the farmtable. Lining the table with these fills out the length and completes the fullness of the table.
Color:
The bright blue sashes and napkins give the wood a pop of color and livens the room.
Feel:
The addition of woodslices under the flowers make for an outdoorsy, adventurous vibe.
VOLUME: A voluptuous green on top of a gold candleabra provides height and width filling great space on a round table.
Color:
There are many colors compiled in this look, but can still look cohesive since they are in the same neutral color palette.
Feel:
Texture is involved in the sequin linen and the ribbing on the blush bud vase for character and personality.
VOLUME:
This sweetheart table is filled with many things to keep it from looking bare. It has a gold metal pedestal bowl filled with flowers, mercury glass votives with candles, and gold chargers to fill the table.
Color:
A bold burgundy linen was paired with gold centerpiece accents and a full flower arrangement for bonus color!
Feel: The linen choice oozes romance with a bit of daring flare.
VOLUME: The volume doesn't just have to be on the tables, it can be in the ceiling too! This draping adds dimension to the space and volume from the top down.
Color:
This venue is an outdoor space with a lot of color from the landscape. However, pairing this simple wooden box on the table gives it fresh color and cohesion.
Feel:
The simplicity of the centerpieces give the feel of a spacious, clean presentation.
VOLUME:
For longer tables, more decor is needed for full volume. This table has eucalyptus interwoven between candlesticks, drinking glasses, mercury bud vases and short tea candles.
Color:
The eclectic collection of candlesticks placed throughout give this wood table a varied color scheme complimenting the chargers and other decor.
Feel:
The shine from the tall candlesticks and layout design of the table presents a rustic and glamorous feel to the day.
VOLUME: A mixture of tall and short flower displays serve as focal points, yet establish a seamless combination to the head table filled with chargers and other various decorations.
Color:
Choosing color can be as simple as pairing a gold charger against a lace table runner and lively flowers.
Feel:
The intricate pattern of this aubrey lace table runner adds rustic charm paired with rustic wood floral boxes.
VOLUME: This look is comprised of simple decor, but still has great volume. The light houses add body and shape, while the eucalyptus generates thickness and bulk throughout the length of the entire table.
Color:
Color is seen throughout the natural wood in the table, the green in the flowers, the white in the lanterns, and a pink and gold charger/napkin duo!
Feel:
The centerpieces give a clean, feminine gathering paired with rustic tones in the table and floral wood boxes for a complete farmstyle table that is sure to stand out!
This or That?? What to choose. What we choose. What would you choose?
Gold chandelier or gold candelabra?
Our pick: gold chandelier. If you have something high on your table, make sure you can still see your guests!
Full of greens or light and simple?
Our pick: light and simple. Place a subtle runner under your decor to add just enough structure and balance.
Classic curtains or creative design?
Our pick: classic curtains. Nothing beats a classic curtain. Whether its windy or completely still, you know that it will always look the best!
Curtains pulled back or curtains flowing free?
Our pick: curtains flowing free. Curtains can be universal. Used for a photo-op, behind a table, or to cover something unwanted, curtains flowing free are a must-have!
Chair ruffle or chair draping?
Our pick: chair ruffle. We love both looks, but there is something so sweet about the falling ruffle!
Steps to finding The One (venue) after you've found The One!
Step 1. Talk to others to hear what they liked and disliked about certain venues
Talking to friends and family about their likes and dislikes can give insight into what you want to be looking for. Whether that be an outdoor ceremony site, or a designated cocktail space, I am sure they can provide many details and options to think about.
Step 2. Make a list of wants vs. must haves
It's easy to get lost in the moment at each venue and love them all. So before taking a tour at any site, be sure to have a list of wants vs. must haves.
Step 3. Find a wedding planner or coordinator that will help see your vision
Wedding planners are not necessary to make a wedding happen, but they definitely take the stress off of planning and make sure everything runs smoothly.
Step 4. Only look at venues that fit in your budget
If you are on a strict budget, only be looking at ones that fit in your price range. This will help make a quicker decision as well as leave extra money for other things...like wedding decor!
Step 4. Keep your guests in mind
Some venues are restrictive to the number of guests so it is important to keep that in mind as well as what they will be doing. Does the venue have a good place for cocktail hour or a comfortable reception space?
Step 5. Ask each venue as many questions as possible to know what is expected and included
When narrowing down which venue to choose, it is easier with all of the facts. So, when doing your visits ask every question you can think of to make planning less stressful. [Again, wedding planners are great!]
Step 6. Envision yourself and your loved ones spending an entire day at that venue
Ultimately, this is your day. So everything aside, pick one that you know you will love even days after the wedding.
After choosing your venue you will need to pick your decor! Stay tuned to see how to decorate your venue!
